I love being in a relationship that brings me peace and fulfilment, that makes me dream every day and feel emotions. But this is not always the case, because each partner brings with him small flaws, which sometimes shake the harmony in the relationship.
1. Pay attention to what the other person is saying
It is possible to have a partner who is not used to being open in front of people, not even in front of you, no matter how great the love between you, so when you catch such a moment, you would do well to dedicate yourself completely. Be there, be present body and soul and do not let a word escape you. Pay attention to what the other person is saying and you may receive some answers that you have been waiting for some time, to questions that you only thought about.
2. Talk about passions, dreams and plans
You make a huge mistake if you don't talk to each other about the passions that excite you every day, about the successes at work, about the dreams that, even if they don't come true, give you strength.
Communicate and incite each other, get inspired and together you will be ready to complete many wonderful plans.
3. Respect him at all times
Respect him at all times, especially when you are in a group. If something bothered him, don't let everyone around him see it, wait until it's just the two of you and then you can tell him what bothered you. Don't make jokes about him or take him by the leg in front of friends.
It doesn't matter that others are more joking and maybe they would understand your peppered jokes, but it's better to be an example of respect. Plus, people are mischievous, and at some point, someone might spread rumours about you following jokes they didn't understand.
4. Are you wrong? Ask for forgiveness
To admit that you were wrong is proof of love and respect. It is frustrating to contradict a person who: either wants to always have the last word, or thinks he is always right, or never admits he was wrong. It is frustrating and leads to the deterioration of any type of relationship.
Even if you are more proud, there is no such thing as love. In love, sincere feelings are offered and there is no place for hate. Even if you happened to be 100% convinced that you were not wrong, but later you realized that it was your fault, admit it and apologize. A "please, forgive me" solves all problems.
5. Do not steal air from each other
I understand your crazy desire because I even miss him even though a wall separates us. When you are in love, every particle of you longs for it every second of the day and night, but, believe me, it is vital to give each other free time. And not only because there is a risk of getting bored of each other, but also because, although you do not realize it at the moment, you both have your individual needs.
6. Discuss your problems
If you have encountered problems, if something bothers you about it, talk about it and find a solution together. It is not healthy to keep your worries and negative thoughts in you. When you both know about the problem, together you will be able to get over it.
An unresolved issue now, an unresolved issue next time ... will lead to a loss of trust and an unhappy end to the relationship. Thus, solve it ahead of time!
7. Do not let the flame of passion go out
After one or two years of crazy love, exchange of exciting messages, surprise pictures sent when you are away from each other, candlelit baths and white nights spent in two, comfort comes. We already know each other very well, we have gone through all the phases, we lie on our ears that the other is guaranteed for the rest of our lives, so we do not make any effort. The intimate moments are on the run, we don't stop admiring each other, we don't do anything to arouse them. Oh, but what a mistake!
That's all I'm telling you: don't give up provocative underwear, don't give up whispering a naughty desire in your ear when you're in public and don't give up playing. Stay the girl from his dreams.
8. Don't go to bed upset
Or don't leave the house after a little disagreement. Tomorrow is not guaranteed to us, nor is the relationship in which we are involved, so why let the seconds pass out of stubbornness or pride? Are you upset? Communicate, clarify and still love each other.
It is important that at the end of the evening you both know how much you mean to each other. And there is nothing more reassuring than falling asleep looking at the one you are in love with.